I’m kicking off the month of March by reviewing for some and introducing to others, ten thoughtfulness styles. I have curated ten common styles that pertain to being thoughtful.  Each letter in the word “P-I-N-C-H” represents two styles. If you find yourself relating to more than one style, that is perfectly normal! In fact, it’s a good indicator that you tend to be flexible.  We all have our own way of being thoughtful. Comparing ourselves to others is very common but it’s not a productive way for us to use our time and energy. Instead, let’s own our style(s) and celebrate how unique we are when it comes to being thoughtful.

The thoughtfulness styles that I will be speaking about pertain to our traits, personalities, values and habits. Let’s start with two styles of thoughtfulness that begin with the letter P:

#1. Professional:  You’re someone who shops for gifts with complete confidence in your choices. Buying gifts for others is easy-peasy because you are a “Pro”. This may be a natural talent or the ability could have come from many opportunities of practice from buying gifts for others. Either way, you don’t need any guidance and in fact, you offer to help those in need. You may not (officially) get paid to buy gifts but if you did, you’d get top dollar because you know exactly what to buy. We all need leaders like you.

#2. Proper: You’re someone who sticks to the guidelines and gives appropriate gifts. Deviating from what is proper is not in your comfort zone. Some may think this style is boring and mundane but no matter what, the gifts that you give are always “spot on”. If you’re someone who likes to pin the tail on the donkey or hit the nail on the head, this style is for you. Pinterest is your friend and you thrive off of proper etiquette. Therefore, the resources you consult to find the proper gifts are tried and true. You are safe and take comfort in traditional gifts.

Now that we touched upon these two styles of thoughtfulness that begin with the letter P, did either resonate with you? Friends awareness is key! Once we figure out our strengths, we can let go of the need to be all things to everyone. Not only is the weight lifted off of our shoulders but more importantly, our efforts are streamlined. Imagine the energy we will save by doing things that feel natural and more genuine. Even better, imagine the world around us if we stopped trying to be something we’re not. I’ve got your back. There are 5 weeks in this month so each week I will break down two styles. At the end of March, we can review and determine if we identify with any or maybe all ten styles of thoughtfulness. Tune in next week for thoughtfulness styles that begin with the letter “I”.

Pinches,

Barb